On this day, I few years back, I realized I had a choice; Mother's Day could be a good day or it could be a bad day. I could enjoy being pampered a bit and let others express their gratitude or I could compare myself to all the idolizing talk about someone's mother and realize how badly I fail as a mother. I decided, that I needed to enjoy Mother's day. It's all in my attitude.
I can't expect my kids to suddenly put on their best behavior and be angels for me. I can expect to hear stories at church about others perfect mothers and be inspired to be better. I can listen my husband gush about how great I am because he doesn't do it everyday. I can love and treasure my kid's scribbled on cards. I can laugh because Landen woke me up saying "Happy Birthday Mom!" I won't do any dishes today, and I've hardly lifted a finger to cook. (Michael did have some verbal help.)
I need to enjoy Mother's Day. I need to teach my kids about the plan of salvation. Motherhood is divine role, and once a year I need to let them celebrate it. I should do so daily, but what's wrong with making it extra special once a year? I need them to know I like being their mother. I need to show them how to appreciate and express gratitude to those they love by letting them show me. I need to let them know that hard things bring us the greatest joy.
I love my kids. They inspire me and make me happy. I love being their mom- it's exhausting, but rewarding. I know that motherhood is part of God's Plan of Happiness. I love Mother's Day.
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